Forgetting is not as easy as forgiving.
Sometimes, the ghosts from the past will remain and continue to haunt you more than the wrongs or mistakes that were caused on you.
It is so painful that it is as if someone is ripping your heart out from your chest that is how difficult it is when you lose someone especially over a break-up.
Relationships are not all happy and fun; it is all about giving in to others and neglecting yourself for the love of another.
Yes, it seems easier to say but in reality, we are made to be with someone and that requires sacrificing yourself.
We have different experiences when it comes to love and relationships, some are blessed enough to have happy endings: dying old with your loved one and hanging on with you.
And most, has this cruel ending where they learn to part ways.
You might want to wonder on why I have to put up with this.
Good question.
When your past still haunts you, it only means one thing...
you want him or her back! It may be hard to admit to yourself that you lost in the game of breakups, Ego would say, "Hey, he or she broke up with me, if he or she can handle it, so why can't I?" Pride would say, "He or she should come crawling back to me, not me n-e-v-e-r!" So what are you? Are you enslaved by ego or pride? Remember, in this life you are not of yourself.
We are created to be with someone, as woman was created through man, with man and for each other.
That someone could have been the one you broke up with, or that someone broke up with you.
Whatever the case may be, if it hurts you inside about the happy memories with that person.
Go! Chase your life, chase your other half!