What to Do If Your Ex Won"t Return Your Calls?
It's incredibly frustrating when you're trying to restore a broken relationship and your ex won't even respond to text or email! This is by far one of the most frequent problems and roadblocks people face in getting a lost love back and is usually the point where most people give up.
Well, there are some simple things you can say that can make it almost irresistible not to call you back.
First though, whatever you do, don't beg or use tricky tactics claiming there's an urgent issue they need to call you about.
Use the power of curiosity on them.
However, do this in a good, yet mysterious way.
You can say something such as "I just wanted to say thank you so much, but I'd like to tell you in person over the phone why I'm saying that.
Please give me a call and I'll explain.
" In many cases, they'll almost be compelled to call you back.
That curiosity factor will drive them nuts.
It doesn't sound desperate, it's just a friendly message with an almost magnetic curiosity element to it.
You can change the wording up to suit your personal style of course, but try to keep the tone similar.
Friendly, yet mysterious.
So what do you do once they've called you back? Don't jump into an "I miss you so much and want you back" rant.
Instead, you can simply thank them for giving you time away from the relationship and explain how much it's helped you step back and work on a lot of positive things in your life.
Jot a few things down on paper ahead of time if it helps.
If they seem at least open to talking, casually bring up a fun memory from your relationship; something light and even funny.
What you're trying to do here is begin the process of re-igniting a spark by getting them to remember something positive in the relationship.
Your final goal on the call, or even on a follow-up call, is to ask them to meet up with you in person for something casual.
Not a date or anything, but something simple like meeting for coffee.
Also, preferably you want to set this casual meeting up during the day, so it seems less like you're asking them on a date.
Again, what you're trying to do with all of this (the call and the casual meeting) is trying to reignite a spark in a positive way, without trying to force them back in your arms, which will usually just drive them further away.
Well, there are some simple things you can say that can make it almost irresistible not to call you back.
First though, whatever you do, don't beg or use tricky tactics claiming there's an urgent issue they need to call you about.
Use the power of curiosity on them.
However, do this in a good, yet mysterious way.
You can say something such as "I just wanted to say thank you so much, but I'd like to tell you in person over the phone why I'm saying that.
Please give me a call and I'll explain.
" In many cases, they'll almost be compelled to call you back.
That curiosity factor will drive them nuts.
It doesn't sound desperate, it's just a friendly message with an almost magnetic curiosity element to it.
You can change the wording up to suit your personal style of course, but try to keep the tone similar.
Friendly, yet mysterious.
So what do you do once they've called you back? Don't jump into an "I miss you so much and want you back" rant.
Instead, you can simply thank them for giving you time away from the relationship and explain how much it's helped you step back and work on a lot of positive things in your life.
Jot a few things down on paper ahead of time if it helps.
If they seem at least open to talking, casually bring up a fun memory from your relationship; something light and even funny.
What you're trying to do here is begin the process of re-igniting a spark by getting them to remember something positive in the relationship.
Your final goal on the call, or even on a follow-up call, is to ask them to meet up with you in person for something casual.
Not a date or anything, but something simple like meeting for coffee.
Also, preferably you want to set this casual meeting up during the day, so it seems less like you're asking them on a date.
Again, what you're trying to do with all of this (the call and the casual meeting) is trying to reignite a spark in a positive way, without trying to force them back in your arms, which will usually just drive them further away.
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