Every marriage has to be tried before it is refined as pure gold! If you think that your marriage is one that is worth fighting for and you want to do all you can to save it - you are already half way there! Here are some helpful hints as to how you can salvage your marriage.
Be loyal and faithful to your partner It is a wonderful feeling when you know your partner is being loyal and above all, faithful to you.
If you prove your fidelity and loyalty to your spouse, he will be willing to accept other faults and shortcomings because he knows in his heart he has your love and devotion.
Don't be in denial Being in denial about your faults is one of the worst things you can do.
Not only will you be blind to your faults but you will become stubborn! This type of attitude will only harm your relationship and stop you from building a strong base of love and trust with your spouse.
If on the other hand you acknowledge your faults then there is great hope for you.
Be ready to meet him halfway There is great reward when there is sacrifice.
If you are willing to meet your spouse half way and do your part, then there is no reason why this won't trigger a similar response in him.
Seeing you do your best to keep the relationship happy and loving, he will automatically want to do the same.
Get rid of false assumptions and don't judge Sometimes it is very easy to make assumptions and think that you are always right.
If you refrain from judging your spouse, being critical and finding faults, you will automatically make your spouse relax and become comfortable with you.
The more critical and judgmental you get - the more stress and tension he will be under.
Don't be selfish A selfish behavior and attitude will serve to make the rift between you deeper.
Be giving and prepared to go the extra mile.
After all you are doing it for the man you love.
Don't expect to be on the receiving end at all times.
Be willing to sacrifice and it will go a long way in the end.
Don't let go of the romance in your relationship The mistake women make is to become cold, lazy and careless about their appearance and the romance in their marriage.
They feel that once they have managed to hook their man - they can relax and forget about the romance! Don't take him for granted and make sure you are as exciting and desirable as ever.
Get rid of anger and pride There is no use holding on to the past, keeping grudges and being stubborn and proud.
These negative attitudes and emotions will make you the loser in the end.
If you sow seeds of forgiveness and good will, love and peace you will reap a mighty harvest of true blessings that will keep your marriage strong and safe.