If you are wondering whether or not your ex will speak to you again, perhaps you need to see the breakup in a different light.
What I mean here is this: you need to see the breakup from your ex's point of view.
Until you do such, you'll never really know whether or not your ex will speak to you again.
But, if you want to step into your ex's shoes and understand things from their perspective, use these 5 things to determine whether or not your ex will speak to you again: The Cause Of The Break Up - Look at the cause; if you are unsure what the cause is, look at what you and your ex argued about.
The cause is generally the things that created distance, arguments, misunderstandings etc..
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between you two.
If those things were more constant than anything else, then your ex is not going to be too open to speaking to you again.
Your Reaction To The Break Up - Most people don't take a breakup very well.
They react poorly, becoming angry, critical, judgmental, clingy, and desperate.
This only further solidifies your ex's decision to leave, because you are backing up their doubts about you by doing the very things they dislike.
If your reaction was poor, and it resulted in your ex cutting off ALL contact; then it is likely going to be a LONG time before they even allow you to contact them again.
Your Ability To Change - Lots of people will leave a situation when they feel they cannot change a person, or that a person will not change.
It's possible that your ex hasn't lost all hope; but rather that they are hoping that you will change in their absence.
Should they come back, they would be expecting some change; and the change or lack of change will THEN determine if they leave forever or stay.
Your Ability To Wait - Some people will instantly get a new partner, because they can't stand being alone.
That is the BIGGEST mistake anyone can make, because if your ex comes back, they will feel like you cheated on them.
This distance and space could be a test that your ex is giving you, to see if you will wait and work things out; or if you will just give up and find someone new because you were lonely.
The Reason To Speak Again - Your ex needs a very good reason to speak to you again.
Time can make your ex miss you, if the period that they are away isn't interrupted by your pleas for them to come back; and that reason alone can bring them back sooner than you think.
Likewise if they think that they've had enough space or time to think things through, they can come back.
All they need is a GOOD reason to speak to you again, which mostly comes with your patience, willingness to change, and ability to move forward.