Having your relationship fall apart at the seams is devastating enough - not knowing whether your ex still cares for you or not is absolute agony! Many people break up and get together - you are well aware of this.
The thing that is really bothering you is how to find out if your ex still cares for you enough to get back together again.
Well, you can rest assured that if your ex does still care for you, you will definitely see signs that your ex still wants you back.
The really great thing about this is that you don't even have to make contact with your ex in order to see these signs.
They will happen naturally, and you will see them eventually.
Then you can make a firm decision as to what your plan of action should be.
Before you rush off to find these signs that your ex wants you back though, first take some time to get over the ordeal you have been through.
Being in the emotional state that you are in right now will have you reading these signs totally wrong.
Your ex also needs to have time to get over the break up first, as it is he/she who will be leaving these signs everywhere for you to see.
So, just have a little patience and concentrate on healing yourself emotionally first.
Once you are feeling like your old self again, then use your energy to look for signs that your ex wants you back.
When you are ready and more capable of seeing the signs that your ex wants you back, read on and find out what some of these signs could be.
You might notice your ex hovering in the background when you are out with your friends or family.
Hearing positive things that your ex is saying to your friends about you.
Finding out from your friends whether you are still single or not.
These things are all positive signs that your ex is still interested in you.
Sending you that first message or email, or making that first call to you, should be convincing enough to you that you have seen the biggest of the signs that your ex wants you back.