One of the most important rules when it comes to getting your ex back is to stay away from you ex for now.
It is absolutely important that you control yourself and keep from contacting your ex right after the breakup.
Because you are vulnerable and extremely hurt at the moment, you might make mistakes that will totally eliminate your chances of ever getting back with your ex.
If you want to know more about ways to get your loved one back, read below.
Even though you miss and want to see or talk with your ex, you really must be strong and avoid contacting him/her for a little while.
You must wait until you feel that you are able to control your feelings before facing your ex.
Wait till you know that you won't act desperate and needy in order to avoid scaring him/her off.
Sometimes people don't wait long enough after the breakup to have self-control and end up demolishing every bit of chance that they had of getting back with their ex.
Don't be afraid that you will lose your ex.
Take your time to recover.
Only time will help you get over that sad feeling of emptiness and regain your strength.
And while you wait, spend some time boosting up your self-esteem and improving your appearance.
Give enough time for your ex to actually miss you.
That way, when your ex sees you next time, you will be emotionally strong and able to at least pretend that you are totally over him/her.
And because your ex will believe that you lost interest, it will actually make your ex more interested in you than ever!