• Only your bravest friends will show up in lingerie for your girls' night in.Lingerie sexy image by ParisPhoto from <a href='http://www.fotolia.com'>Fotolia.com</a>
  
  A lingerie party is a creative party theme for a bachelorette bash or an adult birthday party. Or, you can host a girls' night in where you invite your closest friends over for a decidedly adult event. The party invitation, menu and attire can reflect the lingerie party theme, and you can even spice things up with some fun lingerie-themed games. Keep an open mind when planning your lingerie party and have some fun.
  
  

Planning Ideas

• Your invitation should reflect the theme of your lingerie party and give guests the information they need to attend. In addition to the basic information, you invitation should define the event as a lingerie party--and you can do this in pictures as well as words. For example, choose an invitation design in the shape of a bustier or high heel.
  
  Give guests information on what to wear--for example, should guests show up in their favorite pieces of lingerie, or is the lingerie theme strictly for gifts? This important information will avoid any potentially embarrassing situations--you don't want a guest showing up in her favorite nightie when everyone else wears everyday attire.
  
  

Menu Ideas

• Incorporate the lingerie theme into your menu as well. Many bakeries can make cakes in the shape of a bustier, which is an appropriately naughty cake for this event. You can even make your menu items lingerie themed by making creative menu cards listing the food.
  
  For example, you can serve "stiletto sushi," "push-up paninis" or "spicy shrimp." Use your creative to heat up your menu--you want to choose terms that relate to lingerie to stay on theme. Spruce up your buffet table using a hot pink and black color scheme--use a black tablecloth, and add a pop of color with pink feather boas and clean high-heeled shoes.
  
  

Activities

• The activities you play can also reflect your lingerie party theme. If you're hosting a bachelorette, ask each guest to bring a piece of lingerie for the bride to wear on her honeymoon.
  
  Your guests will enjoy watching the expression of the bride-to-be as she opens their gifts. If you're hosting a girls' night in, set up a panty exchange before the event.
  
  Assign each guest another guest, and ask her to buy a sexy or silly pair of panties for her. Collect everyone's sizes, and distribute them when you send out the assignments. Your guests will enjoy watching guests exchange panties, and the range of panties that everyone purchased, from racy to ridiculous, will amuse them.