It is really quite depressing to a lady when she tries to get her ex to notice her again but to no avail.
One good thing is that women can now learn new tricks and know how to get the ex back.
Many women do not realize that when the man is made to feel that your whole life depends on him, the guy would begin to feel that he needs more space of his own.
The woman should not continue to put all her mind on trying to get the ex back.
Instead just spend the time and effort in making a better life for you.
Get out and do some shopping, buy new clothes, and get a new look.
Doing this will make you feel good about your new life, and this will show on your looks and changed attitude.
Your new confidence and independence will draw new friends to you and with them your ex too.
He will notice that you can go on with life but now he will be admiring the way you live instead.
He will want to be part of it.
As you continue to carve out a new way of life and using your time to do useful things in the society, people will be drawn to you because they become your admirers.
Your ex will get to hear of these great things.
Keep him guessing and just be busy with social or community activities where you will be widening your circle of friends.
This way you will not have time to miss him.
Try not to be available for meetings with him, following him around, or even checking on his activities.
Instead he will be the one who will start looking for you desperately, but try to pretend that you are a very busy lady.
Bingo! Wonder of all wonders is that he will eventually find his way back without you lifting another finger; but this time it will be on different terms.