You are seeking a way to getting a boyfriend back to you, aren't you? You must be, or you wouldn't be reading this.
The sure fire way of getting boyfriend back is to behave as if you are not that affected by the breakup.
If you really want to get boyfriend back, follow these tips: First - Do not call him The first instinct, when we are hurt, is to ask "why.
" Many women call and call to try to get their boyfriend to come to his senses and come back.
Men are funny creatures.
They like a challenge.
And they do not like confrontation.
This is why many men today break up with women in cowardly fashions, like through a text message or over the phone.
They are afraid of tears or confrontation.
They choose the path of least resistance.
Calling him and crying will not get you no where.
Call your girlfriends and support team instead.
Cry to them.
Vent about it online if you have to but do not call him.
This is the most difficult aspect about getting boyfriend back.
Second - Give it time This is the second most difficult thing to do when you want to get a boyfriend back.
You want to talk to him and find out why he broke your heart.
Resist this temptation.
Not forever - this is an article to teach you how to get him back, not to forget about him.
Wait at least a month before you make contact.
Third - Make contact After about a month, you can call him.
You can tell him that you miss talking to him and see how he is feeling.
Tell him that you still think about him "now and then" but do not start crying or pleading - this turns a man off.
This will ring a little bell in his head.
At one time, your boyfriend liked you.
This will jolt his memory of those early times.
Then, after you have made contact, tell him you have to go.
Always be the first to end a conversation.
This will keep him wondering and may ignite the instinct in him to chase.
Men love a chase.
Fourth - Make a move If you have not heard from him in over a month after the first phone call, call him again.
Do not use some paltry excuse as to why you want to see him, tell him you would like to see him again for coffee just to talk about old times.
You can be truthful and say you miss his friendship.
This is totally non-threatening to him.
If he says yes, make a plan.
But keep it to coffee.
And be the first to leave the date.
If he says no, give him your number and tell him that if he wants a friend to talk to, you are always there for him.
Men hate it when you refer to them as friends.
They want to still be in your heart even if they did the breaking up.
This incites the challenge again.
He might give you a call to find out what you are up to.
If he calls, you are busy.
Do not return his call the second he calls - wait a while.
Then call him back.
The secret to getting a boyfriend back is to think like a man.
Men like a challenge.
They do not like drama nor do they like confrontation.
They do not like "talking about the relationship.
" They like things to be easy going.
Give him the challenge - throw down the gauntlet and see if he picks it up.
This will give you something to do, a goal towards getting a boyfriend back, and will also allow your heart to heal at the same time.