Getting a date is never hard, the hard part is making sure that the two of you continue dating and loving each other long after your first date. Then hopefully get married and still look back and say you love each other. There are a lot of advice concerning what to do on your first date and what you should not do. No one ever mentions if it is okay to shower your date with a lot of gifts and money after several dates and if it is okay. However if you ask the people around, you will be surprised to find out that sometimes dating is not all about the money, it is about how you spend it and make the person you are spending one feel appreciated and loved at the same time.

If you want to make sure that your date is there to stay with you and that you get them to love you, you should not dwell so much on money. This is because there are a lot of people out there who are looking to harvest where they did not plant. There are people who will stick with you because of the money that you give them rather than you as a person. If you want someone to stick with you as a person and to love you for who you are you should make sure that when dating you do not give them the money. People who were pretending to love you because of your money will not hang around you long once they realize you are not about to part with your money.

However if you are a man you should be careful about taking your date to expensive places looking to impress. Unlike before where men were used to paying all the bill when they were dating, women nowadays want to share the cost of the date and if the man keeps paying for the bill. You had better be careful when it comes to matters of money. Money is a very sensitive issue that need to be approached in a sensitive manner. Some women will be offended if you kept getting the bill. They would think you think of them as incapable and that to them will be the greatest undermining of the year. You might not get past five dates with this person. If a woman insists on paying the bill let her do. Be careful though, sometimes, this is a trap.

While dating, make sure you get your girlfriend a nice extravagant gift. According to findings of a certain mathematician called Peter Sozou and Robert Seymor, women were more likely to date men who showered them with extravagant gifts than men who gave them cheap gifts that did not include a lot of money. So if you are a man and you are looking to attract a woman and keep her forever, you had better buy her extravagant gifts while you are dating. This translates to a woman as a man who can take care of his family and so she will have no problem dating you.