Pole Dancing on your Hen Night
Why should you consider pole dancing as part of a hen night or girl's night out? Isn't pole dancing something that you'd be more likely to find on a stag night? Actually, what we're talking about here is having you and your friends partake in some pole dancing lessons yourself - not for titillation but for fun and to build camaraderie for the frolics that will surely come later on your party night.
Hen nights tend to have quite a spread of women, from quite a range of different ages and backgrounds. You will probably have relatives you've not spoken to in years mixing with women from your old workplace, as well as younger friends and acquaintances. Most of these people tend to be a little wary of proceedings at first, unsure of how they fit into the group of people who have come to celebrate your upcoming wedding. It is your job to ensure that they can loosen up, feel part of the gang, and build a bond of friendship will all people who are there.
Pole dancing is a great way to do this, and it is almost subliminal. You take out a lot of the pressures that some women typically feel on nights out as they are normally under the spotlight with many men watching them. With dancing lessons it will just be women, and this instantly makes your group less likely to be thinking in terms of competition, but in terms of friendship. Pole dancing together should help the group to feel one. No-one is going to be fantastic at pole dancing, and it's a good way for you all to have a laugh together at the skills you can bring to the pole.
Older participants will be reminded that they too are indeed still young. Some may not want to participate (or no longer have the flexibility to do so), but the instructor will ensure that they are still brought into the fun. It is as much about uniting the people who find pole dancing extremely difficult as it is an exercise in letting the younger girls show off. There may also be shy women in the group, and remember to involve them as much as possible even if they shy away from actually dancing themselves.
All in all, pole dancing lessons on a girl's night out is a great way to set up a fantastic night with a group of new friends.
Hen nights tend to have quite a spread of women, from quite a range of different ages and backgrounds. You will probably have relatives you've not spoken to in years mixing with women from your old workplace, as well as younger friends and acquaintances. Most of these people tend to be a little wary of proceedings at first, unsure of how they fit into the group of people who have come to celebrate your upcoming wedding. It is your job to ensure that they can loosen up, feel part of the gang, and build a bond of friendship will all people who are there.
Pole dancing is a great way to do this, and it is almost subliminal. You take out a lot of the pressures that some women typically feel on nights out as they are normally under the spotlight with many men watching them. With dancing lessons it will just be women, and this instantly makes your group less likely to be thinking in terms of competition, but in terms of friendship. Pole dancing together should help the group to feel one. No-one is going to be fantastic at pole dancing, and it's a good way for you all to have a laugh together at the skills you can bring to the pole.
Older participants will be reminded that they too are indeed still young. Some may not want to participate (or no longer have the flexibility to do so), but the instructor will ensure that they are still brought into the fun. It is as much about uniting the people who find pole dancing extremely difficult as it is an exercise in letting the younger girls show off. There may also be shy women in the group, and remember to involve them as much as possible even if they shy away from actually dancing themselves.
All in all, pole dancing lessons on a girl's night out is a great way to set up a fantastic night with a group of new friends.
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