Sheila couldn't believe she'd been dumped.
Not only was her heart broken but she had no idea it was coming so it sent her reeling and searching for reasons.
Unfortunately, Steve didn't provide a nice tidy list of her shortcomings when he ended things.
The more Sheila thought about things the more she realized that she wasn't quite ready to call it quits.
Her goal was to get him back.
She read everything she could get her hands on concerning "how to get back with your ex boyfriend.
" Some of the information was good and helpful other not so much.
Her head began to hurt from all the information she was reading that seemed to contradict other things and her heart was on a roller coaster.
You might be in the same place but there is something you can do that will help you figure out how to get back with your ex boyfriend that will be far more effective than almost everything Sheila read about in her research.
No relationship is perfect.
Sheila's certainly wasn't.
Chances are that you'll find a few mistakes made by both of you as you examine your relationship in hopes of finding what went wrong.
There is a lot you can learn from those mistakes.
One of the most important things you can learn is what needs to change in order to get back with your boyfriend now and avoid finding yourself in the same position in the future.
It sounds like a tall order but you don't have to follow in Sheila's footsteps.
You can examine your role in the relationship and make improvements.
A mental makeover can go a long way towards healing old wounds and creating new bonds.
Find out what went wrong.
Were you too needy, too clingy, too independent, too bossy, too messy, or even too neat? What was the fatal flaw in your relationship? Find it and fix it.
That's the mental makeover you need in order to get him back.
It must be followed before you take the next step.
What's the next step?