The first step to getting your girlfriend back is understanding why she left you in the first place.
Something in your relationship changed or became stagnant and it's quite likely that you didn't even notice until it was too late.
It seemed like she came out of nowhere to break up with you, but in her mind the break up was a long time coming.
So look at the man she started dating and the man you are now.
Do you still take her out and show her off all over town? Did you still tell her she's beautiful? Or have you started spending more nights in with a pizza and a movie? She wants that magic.
Where is the confident, alpha male that she started going out with? You need to recapture that man.
Who were you the night you met? On your first date? When a relationship ends, our tendency as men is to try and save it.
The wrong way! Don't go back to her on your knees or with an armload of flowers.
Now you are acting like the stereotypical man trying to save his relationship.
You don't want to act like a character in a movie.
Women actually hate that.
Instead you want to start acting like the man she first started dating.
This is how you get your girlfriend back.
Bring back the freshness of your relationship.
Show her that you care and know she is important.
So rekindle that initial romance.
Don't ask her to fix what is broken or to give you a second chance.
Act like you expect her to go out with you.
Confidence is the ultimate aphrodisiac.