To start an affair is very easy but to end an affair is difficult. If you are feeling intense guilt and determine to terminate your affair then here is some tips which might help you in restoring the peace of your mind.

1. Do it as early as possible

If you are not caught yet, then that does not mean that you are invisible. It is better if you end your affair as early as possible. Putting off or avoiding the break up will cerate more complications you think. If your better half doesn't know about your affair then the necessity of ending quickly is much more needed. You will at least have a chance to revive your old love relationship with your wife.

2. When you end, end it completely

It is usually observed that when some one breaks an affair, they always left open a small window. Which give them psychological assurance that they may come back, if their relationship with their wife still does not improve. This is wrong. If you think that you should end your relationship with your lover then end it completely without leaving any chance of coming back. Once, you know that you can't go back and start an affair again; you will work very hard to revive your relationship with your wife.

3. Don't be rude to your lover

When you have extra marital relationship for long or short time, it will hurt both of you when you decide to end it. How to tell your lover about the break up is very tricky and handle it with utmost care. You don't want to deeply hurt the opposite party's feeling. Tell him/her your reason, about your guilt and the complication arises in their life if they continue this relationship. Be very gentle. Some time if you are rude and deeply hurt the other party then it will rebound on you and other party will try to ruin your life.