There are hundred ways but there are 5 ways to get back at your ex, which are easy to follow.
Relationships are so that they get easily broken...
Needless to say, break-ups are stressful and frustrating.
If you have a relationship broken up, you would be eager to get back at your ex but will also like to get him back.
These 5 tips can not only help you get back at your ex but they are also excellent methods for getting your ex back as well.
- Cut on communication.
This may appear counterintuitive to your objective of making up with your ex, but it is one of the most important steps when getting back at your ex or getting your ex back.
Close off communication for a while, and let him starve of your contact for some time...
This will allow your ex to realize how valuable your relationship was.
- Be strong...
Stop begging, imploring and showing your desperation...
Let your ex wonder whether you are getting on well without his company, after all.
When you are strong and 'act' tough, he will come around seeking you...
- Enjoy yourself! Be in company.
Call your friends and move out of the house.
Become socially active and enjoy some entertainment in your life.
I am not suggesting that you start dating and flirting with others to revenge your ex.
I am only emphasizing the need for you to be getting out and enjoying your time with your friends.
This will this not only be psychologically soothing but will also help convince your ex that they lost a gem.
- Be flexible.
This is not to contradict my earlier advice to be strong.
You need a bit of both toughness and flexibility! Do not start demanding that your move out by a certain date.
Be flexible, be a listener and a sympathizer.
Your ex will be pleasantly surprised to see your soft side and may become inclined to build the lines of communication with you.
- Be yourself.
Go back to the time when you started developing the relationship and try to remember why he loved you in the first place.
This will help a better understanding between you too both.