Have you ever noticed how many relationships break up? I am talking about the relationships with wives, husbands, girlfriends,boyfriends, or significant others.
Have you ever wondered why they can't stay together? Or, have you ever thought about what it would take to makeup with one that you lost? To head off a disastrous end by making up with that person? What would it take? Well, I am about to tell you a big secret about the process.
You're not going to want to hear this but, most people don't pick the perfect mate.
Wait just a minute, it's almost impossible to find someone with the exact same likes, dislikes, views, etc.
, as you.
In fact, it probably would be a little dull if everyone were put together as exact matches with their partner.
Usually, however, differences in people, are what cause problems in close, intimate relationships.
How do we deal with differences? We have to learn to compromise.
Relationships are give and take.
You may have to give up watching football with the buddies every night.
Instead, scale it back some, to a couple of times per week so that you can be with your spouse or you girlfriend or your whomever.
Or, it may be that you have to quit spending so much time shopping or spending money on cloths.
Not compromising or controlling your spending can spell disaster in a relationship.
You must learn to compromise.
If you have lost that person for this reason, you have to decide which you want more.
Do you want to continue to do what you are doing and not have your wife, etc.
, or are you ready to try compromising.
Give and take so to speak.
Then, you must go back and earnestly sell the idea to the one you have lost that you will compromise and that you want to be in a serious relationship.
You should now understand the cause of many of the problems in a relationship.
Why you can't stay together.
Why your relationship won't work.
Why it keeps falling apart.
Why you must make up and compromise.