On again off again relationships can be very frustrating for you.
You may be really in love and want to keep the relationship 'on'.
Many times a relationship starts out as being casual and over time one person wants to make the relationship deeper and more permanent.
It can drive you crazy no matter what side of the fence you are on.
There are two reasons a person may cling to a non-committed relationship: Fear of getting hurt - They may pull away if the relationship starts getting serious.
Later on after things cool off, they come back.
Until they get over that fear a long term, committed relationship will not be possible.
So they yo-yo with on again off again love.
Boredom - For some people, they think it's better to be in a relationship than alone.
Then once they get into a relationship, the find that it's not what they wanted at all.
A commitment in these circumstances just isn't possible.
These type people find themselves dealing with breakup quite often.
Have you let your partner become too comfortable with the relationship? They know you are going to be there no matter what.
So when they get bored, they cut you loose.
Then they lose interest in what they're doing and come back to you.
Because they know that you will take them back.
On again off again relationships can be very harmful for you.
You should have some respect for yourself.
You deserve better.
You need to put a stop to this craziness right away.
Talk to your partner and tell them that if they leave this time, there is no coming back.
Then you have to stick to it.
This may entice them to commit to you or you may lose them altogether.
Dealing with break-up is hard, but you can make it through that easier than you can deal with being treated like a yo-yo for the rest of your life.