It is hard to play it cool when it comes to being dumped.
We have all been there.
Well, most of us have.
I suppose there are those lucky few who met someone and they stayed together forever, but we don't care about them.
This is not for them, they are not reading this.
Trust me, and they have nothing to say about this, because they have never been here.
I have.
If you want to learn how to attract your ex back, without looking completely like a dork, then article is for you, and only you.
Those of you who have had a lifetime of love, I think there is something on the hallmark channel awaiting your viewing.
So for those of you who are in this precarious situation let me first start by saying this, whatever you do, do not act desperate.
Desperate is ugly.
Desperate is gross.
Desperate is definitely not attractive and is for sure going to give you the dork factor.
If you want to attract you ex back, play it cool.
Do you need a definition of desperate? I thought you might.
Take notes.
Desperate is calling after you have broken up more than once a week.
Desperate is ever calling again if he or she does not return your phone call.
Desperate is driving over to their house to say one final goodbye (oh for the love of all that is holy please do not do this!) Desperate is doing things you would not normally do to try and get him or her back- giving in to things that you don't agree with.
This will get you no where in the end.
No, the key to attracting your ex back is to be cool.
Be nice, but don't act like this is really killing you all that much.
Treat yourself with respect.
Keep yourself looking nice, and keep yourself feeling nice.
Date other people; hang out with your friends.
Do fun things for you.
Don't waste time thinking about what your ex is doing.
Do not act sad.
Be sad if you want, but hold your head up high.
Always hold you head up high and surround yourself with dignity.
You want to make your ex want you.
Not detest you.
Bugging someone only drives them away.
I have done it over and over and never seem to learn my lesson.
Not until I learned to practically ignore my ex did I learn how to attract my ex back.
It was amazing.
Then surprise, surprise, I realized she wasn't the one for me and I found the one who was.
However, that is not the norm, and because of that I process I learned that very valuable lesson.
Give your ex the space they require.
They will come back if they want to.
You can't make that choice for them.