Are you going through the heartache of a recent break up? This is one of the worst feelings in the world especially if you want your ex back but feel powerless to change things.
Here's the good news: You're NOT powerless to change your situation.
With the right guidance you have a strong chance of getting your ex back in your arms...
even if you're the only one trying.
5 Tips For Getting Back Your Ex: 1.
Don't act needy, desperate, or pushy.
Think back to times in your life when someone tried to "make you" do something.
How did you react? You resisted right? Well, your ex is no different.
The harder you push for a reunion the more they will resist.
It's basic human nature.
2.
Give your ex space.
Giving your ex space allows them time to miss you.
It also shows that you're not going to chase after them.
This is very powerful.
If your ex sees that you're acting independent and strong, they will be much more attracted to you and open to getting back together.
3.
Date other people.
Nothing serious, just some casual fun to help you get your mind off your ex for a while.
You'll feel better and more confident as a result.
4.
Work on improving yourself.
No one is perfect and we could all use a little "work.
" Take this time to improve yourself and work on any issues that might have contributed to the break up.
This will go a long way towards ultimately healing the relationship with your ex when you finally get back together.
5.
Stay busy.
Having a lot of idle time is a sure recipe for obsessing about your ex and can lead to depression or cause you to act in ways that are out of character for you.
Staying busy with positive activities, reconnecting with friends and family, etc.
will help you steer clear of getting into an emotional funk.