You met this great guy and had some dates. You fell in love with him and he said he loved you too. But, then he changed and seemed to pull away. Now he has told you he needs some space and you miss him like crazy. If this is similar to your situation, you have plenty of company. This happens to thousands of women all over the world everyday.

If you are like these other women, you have been trying to get your ex boyfriend back. But the more you try to get him to tell you what happened, the more he pulls away. That should tell you that you are doing something wrong. Instead of chasing after him, you have to respect his wishes. Your ex boyfriend said he needed some space, so give him space. If you give him enough space, he will be the one missing you like crazy.

Getting your ex boyfriend back is all in knowing how a man's mind works and using the right male psychology. Men are all pretty much alike. They have a lot of pride and ego. When you chase him and tell him you can't live without him, you are feeding his ego and he wants more. That is why he keeps rejecting you. He knows that as long as he rejects you, you will keep feeding his ego by trying to get him back.

But what happens when you walk away and give him all of the space he can handle? This changes everything. Your ex boyfriend will look around and find you are going out with your friends and doing other things to occupy your time. Now, it will be his turn to wonder what happened. Why did you suddenly stop trying to get him back. Then he will wonder if you have found someone else.

These thoughts will float around inside his head and he will imagine you in the arms of some other guy. This is when your ex boyfriend will realize he misses you like crazy. He will start kicking himself for being such a jerk. The love he has for you will flow through him and he will feel as miserable as you have been feeling. All of this will happen if you stop chasing him and begin to ignore him.

Men are actually very predictable. If you take something away from them, they will want it back. Since they are aggressive by nature, their instinct will tell them to go after what they lost. When your ex boyfriend thinks he may be losing you for good, he will want you back and come after you. All you have to do is make him work to get you back and he will be your guy forever.

Getting back a boyfriend who needs space is all about showing him you can get by without him. When he thinks you no longer want him, it will push his emotional hot buttons and he will see he misses you like crazy. Now if all of the other women in the world realized what you now know. That you can't get your ex boyfriend back until he misses you, they would soon be as happy as you are going to be.