One of the best ways to get back an ex girlfriend is to make sure that you stay in contact with her without direct contact, at least for a brief while.
You both most likely need a little break anyway! Approaching the way that I am going to outline is honest and incredibly sincere, so that IF you are a good guy, then what she has lost (you) will eventually, in most instances, start to creep in to her thoughts and increase with the outlined actions that you make.
Now if you broke up over something nuts like she caught you cheating with her best friend, then perhaps it will be much more difficult for you to get back an ex girlfriend and rightly so! She does not trust you and why should she? Here is Your Hot List of Actions to Get Back An Ex Girlfriend.
Always Look & Smell Good.
Sure you are down and not feeling the best, but start looking supreme and many people will notice and trust me the word will spread.
Be Sharp! Contact Her Friends: Just to say hello and casually ask how your ex is doing, be sincerely interested in her and how she is.
Do not do anything stupid with her friends! EVER! Give a Courtesy Call: If and only if the relationship was such that you were close to her family feel free to call to her parents, brothers.
Nothing heavy, just hi and how are you! If they mention her, be sure to ask light questions about her.
(Do not be nosey) Every Couple of Weeks: Do something really cool for her.
Send her a tender letter.
(Nothing heavy!) Send her a poem.
Send her something that reminded you of her when you saw it and let her know that.
Never anything expensive! (No bribing) Become a New Man: In heart, mind and spirit grow and become more! You know what your faults are.
If you are unsure ask your friends, they will let you know FAST! If you are aware of any nuisance problems that you have that may have disappointed her repeatedly...
Dump it! Volunteer Time: Find someone in need.
It could be a teenager who needs a role model or some senior citizens who need some company or work done around their home.
You are learning how to serve at the highest level with no expectation of anything in return.
Watch what happens to your heart, mind and spirit! Reformat Your Brain: Read books and material on relationship and communication.
To get back an ex girlfriend you need to know how communication works! New information to your brain is critical for your growth and building even a better relationship! Call Her Directly: Have a brief sincere conversation, ask her to meet you for coffee or a light lunch.
Go somewhere you can focus on her with no interruptions.
Let her know how good it feels to see her.
(Nothing heavy!) At some point look her in directly in the eyes and open up your heart to her.
Slowly reaching over and gently holding or stroking her hand, tell her how you feel.
If there is any chance to get back an ex girlfriend you stand a very extreme probability of finding out right now.
Treat Her Like a Princess Always! May very best wishes of success to you and I will be rooting for you all the way.