Sometimes you make a mistake in your relationship and you find yourself saying "he broke up with me how do I get him back?".
People breakup all the time and often get back together; but what was the reason he broke up with you? This is the question you want to answer right now.
Do you know why he broke up with you, did he tell you why? Please tell me you are not trying to get a guy back who broke up using a text message or email! Reasons for a breakup are many, some good and some just excuses.
Since you are trying to win him back then I am guessing you had a pretty good relationship at one time.
Other reasons are quite valid and with serious consequences.
If you really do not know the reason you might just have to ask him.
Many times the answer lies in cheating, but other times it can be only the accusation of cheating.
So first, did you happen to cheat on him? This is something he might forgive, unless - did you lie about it when first confronted? If he broke up with you because you cheated then that can be forgiven and many couples get back together and move forward.
Trust is hard to rebuild, but it can be done.
The problem is compounded, though, if you lied about it at any time.
On the other hand, did he accuse you of cheating or anything else and it happens that you did not do it? It can be tough to prove innocence sometimes, which is why someone is usually innocent until proven guilty.
This is a different matter if you cannot convince him you did not do anything wrong.
If he simply does not trust you for no valid reason, is this someone you want to get back together with? One other possibility is that he broke up with you simply because he wants to be with someone else.
If so, it could be just a brief infatuation that will pass.
What you want is for him to see that his real happiness depends on being with the right woman, and that woman is you.
The good news is that you do not have to change to be what he wants.
Simply be the you he fell in love with at the start.
You remember; smiling, fun loving and interested in him.
Be on your best behavior whenever you are around him or his circle of friends.
There is nothing wrong with showing your good side.
Anything you know that annoys him you can work on and try to eliminate from your character over time.
He has his faults, too, remember.
You do not have to try to be perfect for anyone.
If no tragic mistake was made on your part then getting him back can be as simple as showing him the person he fell in love with and letting him remember those initial feelings.
No begging, nagging or pleading is required to get him back.