I want to know how to get back with my ex girlfriend.
This phrase is uttered by men all over the world, every day.
No one ever said that relationships were easy.
They certainly don't come with a road map so most of us are learning as we go.
Unfortunately sometimes things don't go the way we would like and a break up occurs.
If you're a man in this situation now, you may be pining for the woman you've lost.
You've likely been bombarded with pieces of advice from well meaning family and friends, but what advice really works? Understanding how to win back her love must start with seeking forgiveness.
You may have tried this in the form of calling her asking for another chance or sending her gifts.
Naturally this seems like the right path to take.
If your actions contributed to the split, you want her to know that you have regrets.
That's natural and normal so you need to apologize.
But not with flowers or long drawn out emails or calls.
Call her up, say you're sorry and end the conversation.
That's the way to handle it.
You want her to feel your sincerity without coming across as overly emotional.
The next step in your plan to get her back is a bit more challenging.
Not a lot of men can do it, but if you can you'll greatly increase your chances of being with her again.
You've got to put her out of your mind for at least a few weeks.
That seems almost impossible to a man who just wants to be with the woman he loves.
It's essential though if you want to win her back.
You have to show her, not tell her, what her life will be like without you.
You can't possibly do that if you're calling her endlessly, texting or emailing her.
Drop all contact for at minimum two weeks.
Do whatever it takes to resist the temptation to contact her.
While you are doing this, she'll be wondering where you've gotten to.
She'll start to notice the void in her life that only you can fill.
You want and need for her to feel this in order to get her to want you back again.