If you are experiencing a break up right now then you are probably feeling upset and constantly thinking about how you can get your ex back.
I know how your feeling and have been in the situation myself.
The worst thing about breaking up is that you feel that it is out of control, but there are strategies you can use to win back your ex faster than you thought possible.
Do not make the mistake of getting into an argument with ex about who was in the right and who was in the wrong, this argument will just be ongoing and you will end up driving you further apart.
If your ex accuses of being in the wrong, just go along with it and admit it.
I know it may be hard but you must resist the temptation to get into an argument.
Instead you need to focus on talking to your ex in a calm manner, be relaxed and friendly and try to tell your ex how you feel, let them know what you find special about them and why you think you should be together.
If you have difficulty doing this on the phone, then write down all the things on a piece of paper and sent your ex a letter instead.
The final step is to think and plan a romantic meeting with your ex, buy a small gift to take along with you to the meeting, always be relaxed, be easy going, avoid getting into argument and instead talk about the things you have in common and the good points about your relationship.
The above are the steps I took to get my with ex and I hope they help you as well.