Have you ever heard a bride-to-be say, "I would really like to have a themed wedding"? My response to that simply statement is, "As opposed to what?" If you think about it, nearly every wedding has as theme.
It may not be specifically stated or defined in words, but most likely all of the wedding decorations have a common theme.
It could be defined by the colors, the time of year, the culture in which the wedding accessories are comprised of, or many other factors.
The typical wedding themes for wedding decorations are: Winter theme, beach theme, summer theme, spring theme, fall theme, heart theme, blue theme, pink theme, Asian theme, traditional theme, and many many...
many others.
Sit down and think about what color best suites you.
This color may be determined by the season or simply by how often you wear this color on a regular basis.
Either way, you want the colors to match your personality.
Make sure that this is one of the important decisions that you (the bride to be) make on your own.
You can involve friends and family in many of the other detailed decisions that need to be made for your wedding, but when it comes to the over-all theme, you need to make this decision yourself.
Whatever theme you choose for your wedding decorations and wedding accessories (even if you "claim" to not have a themed wedding) make it one that is unique to your tastes and gives a feeling of beauty to you and your guests.