I'm sorry your heart has been broken and your thoughts are consumed with "I miss my ex boyfriend so much".  If he was the love of your life then the pain you are experiencing is difficult to deal with and it's hard to get through the day without crying a little. I know it's not easy but trust me when I say things will get better.

I know this is not what you want to hear at this point but I hope that either you get your ex boyfriend back and go on to a happy and healthy relationship or you go on without him and have a happy, joyous, peaceful and wonderful life.  Of course, I want to see your heart healed and your relationship restored with your ex boyfriend. However, the most important thing I want for you is for you to love yourself enough to know that you can move on even if things don't work out.

Relationships are complicated and just when we think we have figured it out we realize we don't have a clue. Things often times are not what they appear to be. Sometimes there are no major issues in the relationship that make you think a break up is coming. You start to see slight changes in your boyfriend's behavior like he doesn't call or come around as much as he use to. Then before you know it he tells you that he needs some time apart.

It's not that relationships are that difficult but people are. It's hard to know exactly why your ex boyfriend decided to throw in the towel unless he is totally honest with you or unless you did something, like cheated on him. Depending on the reason for the breakup your ex boyfriend may or may not miss you. I would bet that he does but he probably has too much pride to admit it. What do I do to get my ex girlfriend back is probably what he is thinking.

So you miss your ex boyfriend so much and want to know what do I do?

Take advantage of the time apart to figure out the three biggest reasons why you think your ex boyfriend decided to breakup. Figure out how or what you could have done differently to positively influence the situation to make your relationship stronger. There may be something that you were doing that caused tension of negative feelings between you and your ex boyfriend. You want to avoid making the same mistakes once you get back together with your boyfriend. Don't miss the opportunity to be much better prepared when you get your ex boyfriend back.

Next you need to take a little time to refresh yourself. You have just been through a traumatic painful experience. Take a little time to figure out what makes you happy. Do some of those things that you loved to do before he came along. No sitting around crying and playing your favorite love songs. There will be time for that once you get your ex boyfriend back.

Get yourself prepared and then reach out to your ex boyfriend and let him know that you intend to win his love back and you understand some of the reasons why he left. You also can let him know that during your time away you have had a chance to examine your life and relationship with him. Let him know that you are not expecting him to jump right back into the relationship but you do expect to rekindle your relationship at some point in the near future. The key is to not contact him until you are ready to answer his questions and know how to respond to him.

I know your question is what do I do to get my ex boyfriend back because I miss him so much.

The good news is you don't have to figure out how to get your ex boyfriend back all by yourself. There is no need for you to try to tackle this without getting some expert tips and strategies.