Get Into A Man’S Psyche!
Be his support system.
Yes, men do have huge egos. And there’s no harm if you stroke it a bit! They need assurance and love too. They need to know they are doing whatever they are doing well enough. There’s no need to overdo things, but compliments are harmless so keep them going, because it keeps them going!
Know him thoroughly.
So, what is your man into? Does he love sports cars? Is he a closet male grooming products freak? Is he a football geek? Does he own countless body sprays in different fragrances? Does he actually enjoy standup comedy? Yep, it’s nice to learn those small things about your man - including his likes and dislikes. Don’t judge him, and he’ll open up in no time!
Men are emotional, too.
We know that men like acting all rough and tough on the outside, but inside they are huge puddles of emotions. They just manage to hide it really well. Make sure your guy knows that it’s absolutely all right to feel sad about certain things. Let him know that it’s ok to cry too if they want to. Be understanding and a little patient as men sometimes tend to show their sadness through frustration and maybe a little bit of anger.
Show them that you understand.
There must have been a time when your guy said something completely innocent to you and it came out all wrong. If you understand, it’s nice, but if you don’t, try not getting angry. Understand this about men - they don’t always know how to communicate what they are thinking properly. And often, in order to fix what they said, they mess up more. Humour them, and laugh it off!
Honesty is the best policy.
Honesty is the base of every relationship. Once the trust breaks, nothing else remains. So, be honest with your man. Yes, about everything. Tell him if you think he’s overdoing it with his huge array of male grooming products. Tell him if you bumped into your ex, and you were civil. Tell him things. If you want him to be honest, you should be too! Plus, you can have a more fulfilling relationship if you do not constantly doubt one another. Think about it!
The problem of the ‘roving eye’.
Yep, we all know just how men are wired. Yes, they have sexual urges. And to be honest, women have urges as strong as them, but no one creates a big ruckus about that. If a hot girl walks by, a man will look. And that absolutely does not mean that you are forgotten. Usually, a sight is forgotten once it’s gone. Like how you would check out that really cute guy. And you know you would. However, if something really bothers you, do have a conversation. Like adults.
The Peter Pan Syndrome.
Well, yes men don’t really grow up, do they? This is not being said to bring them down, but it’s kind of true. But well, they are still adorable, and we still love them. So let them indulge in a little bit of childish pleasure - and he’ll love you more!
Yes, men do have huge egos. And there’s no harm if you stroke it a bit! They need assurance and love too. They need to know they are doing whatever they are doing well enough. There’s no need to overdo things, but compliments are harmless so keep them going, because it keeps them going!
Know him thoroughly.
So, what is your man into? Does he love sports cars? Is he a closet male grooming products freak? Is he a football geek? Does he own countless body sprays in different fragrances? Does he actually enjoy standup comedy? Yep, it’s nice to learn those small things about your man - including his likes and dislikes. Don’t judge him, and he’ll open up in no time!
Men are emotional, too.
We know that men like acting all rough and tough on the outside, but inside they are huge puddles of emotions. They just manage to hide it really well. Make sure your guy knows that it’s absolutely all right to feel sad about certain things. Let him know that it’s ok to cry too if they want to. Be understanding and a little patient as men sometimes tend to show their sadness through frustration and maybe a little bit of anger.
Show them that you understand.
There must have been a time when your guy said something completely innocent to you and it came out all wrong. If you understand, it’s nice, but if you don’t, try not getting angry. Understand this about men - they don’t always know how to communicate what they are thinking properly. And often, in order to fix what they said, they mess up more. Humour them, and laugh it off!
Honesty is the best policy.
Honesty is the base of every relationship. Once the trust breaks, nothing else remains. So, be honest with your man. Yes, about everything. Tell him if you think he’s overdoing it with his huge array of male grooming products. Tell him if you bumped into your ex, and you were civil. Tell him things. If you want him to be honest, you should be too! Plus, you can have a more fulfilling relationship if you do not constantly doubt one another. Think about it!
The problem of the ‘roving eye’.
Yep, we all know just how men are wired. Yes, they have sexual urges. And to be honest, women have urges as strong as them, but no one creates a big ruckus about that. If a hot girl walks by, a man will look. And that absolutely does not mean that you are forgotten. Usually, a sight is forgotten once it’s gone. Like how you would check out that really cute guy. And you know you would. However, if something really bothers you, do have a conversation. Like adults.
The Peter Pan Syndrome.
Well, yes men don’t really grow up, do they? This is not being said to bring them down, but it’s kind of true. But well, they are still adorable, and we still love them. So let them indulge in a little bit of childish pleasure - and he’ll love you more!
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