My son has been different from my other children, all his life.
Even as a baby, I would notice that he was difficult to calm, impulsive, hyperactive and very angry.
I discussed these matters with the pediatrician, very early in his toddler years.
He assured me that it was probably just normal boy characteristics.
Being that my oldest was a girl and my youngest was an infant, I had no idea what to expect from a toddler boy.
So I dismissed my worries and figured that things would change.
They did not.
By the time my son entered Kindergarten, I knew that something was not right.
The only time that I was not frustrated by his constantly changing moods and angry outbursts, was when he was at school or asleep.
He fought me all the way to the bus stop, even though he loved his class.
His teacher would often call me to discuss the possibility of getting him assessed.
My mom, who never had boys, often expressed her concern for his rage and destructive tendencies.
Finally, in the first grade, the doctor would allow me to have him assessed.
Unfortunately, the doctor did not take the time to run all of the necessary tests.
Since I did not do enough research to know any better, I allowed him to be diagnosed ADHD, just based on observation.
I could just kick myself now, as I look back on it.
I should have demanded a brain scan, blood tests, allergy tests, psychological testing, mineral deficiency tests, etc...
I just trusted the doctor to know what he was doing.
Big mistake.
Daniel started taking Focalin XR, last year.
It was effective in keeping him focused at school.
It made little difference at home, however.
He still struggled with impulsiveness, anger and keeping still long enough to do homework.
After doing a lot of research and learning that being on medication could create a dependence that could lead to later illegal substance abuse, I got scared.
We took Daniel off of the medication and are seeking alternative routes to treating his ADHD symptoms.
I've found, during my numerous hours of research, that ADHD is not a certain condition.
It us merely a label that doctors slap on any child or adult with like symptoms, in order to sell more drugs.
There are many methods of treating ADHD symptoms, that do not require medication.
I'm not saying that all children who suffer from the same symptoms as my son, do not qualify to be diagnosed ADHD.
I'm only suggesting that more parents take proactive measures in finding out whether or not their child's symptoms are related to allergies, mineral deficiencies, or other outside factors.
It would save more kids from the danger of being misdiagnosed and put on a drug that can hurt them later on in life.