Get Your Ex Back by Initiating Contact With a Phone Call!
The best way to deal with a resistant ex is to call him/her and leave a message! Keep the message short and not too emotional! You see, post break-up most partner's need some time and space to themselves.
They might like to think about what to do next, what they want from life, how to move on...
So, give your ex a month by himself/herself.
It's important that you don't rush into anything.
Take this month to think things over and focus on healing yourself.
You've been through a lot and need some time out as well.
So, by the time you make that call, you should be mentally prepared and emotionally balanced.
Be prepared that your ex might not take your call even after a month! Now, this is even better! You get to leave a message without having to speak with your ex.
That way you don't run the risk of getting overemotional or getting into an argument.
But before you call, figure out exactly what you'd like to say.
Write it down if it makes things easier for you.
The main motive behind making this call is to intrigue your ex, up his/her curiosity levels until he/she calls you back! Since you're familiar with your partner, you probably know exactly which buttons to press.
So, press those buttons and get him/her to call you back! This is the kind of message you should leave: "Hi! I'm calling to apologize for what I said last time.
I know that you probably don't want to talk to me and I understand that you need some space right now.
You know, you were right about the break-up, the time had come to move on.
I didn't realize it then, but you did.
I'll always remember the wonderful moments we shared.
Wish we could meet up for a cup of coffee, but there's so much happening in my life right now.
I'm really sorry for everything...
" (HANG UP!) Now this message will drive your ex crazy with curiosity! It's an extremely important step to get your ex back.
What you're doing is, you're apologizing for the things you've said or done, while respecting your ex's feelings.
By doing this, you're showing your ex that you are both reasonable and understanding.
This will remove a source of conflict between the two of you and make way for a return call from your ex! And that should pave the way for a reconciliation!
They might like to think about what to do next, what they want from life, how to move on...
So, give your ex a month by himself/herself.
It's important that you don't rush into anything.
Take this month to think things over and focus on healing yourself.
You've been through a lot and need some time out as well.
So, by the time you make that call, you should be mentally prepared and emotionally balanced.
Be prepared that your ex might not take your call even after a month! Now, this is even better! You get to leave a message without having to speak with your ex.
That way you don't run the risk of getting overemotional or getting into an argument.
But before you call, figure out exactly what you'd like to say.
Write it down if it makes things easier for you.
The main motive behind making this call is to intrigue your ex, up his/her curiosity levels until he/she calls you back! Since you're familiar with your partner, you probably know exactly which buttons to press.
So, press those buttons and get him/her to call you back! This is the kind of message you should leave: "Hi! I'm calling to apologize for what I said last time.
I know that you probably don't want to talk to me and I understand that you need some space right now.
You know, you were right about the break-up, the time had come to move on.
I didn't realize it then, but you did.
I'll always remember the wonderful moments we shared.
Wish we could meet up for a cup of coffee, but there's so much happening in my life right now.
I'm really sorry for everything...
" (HANG UP!) Now this message will drive your ex crazy with curiosity! It's an extremely important step to get your ex back.
What you're doing is, you're apologizing for the things you've said or done, while respecting your ex's feelings.
By doing this, you're showing your ex that you are both reasonable and understanding.
This will remove a source of conflict between the two of you and make way for a return call from your ex! And that should pave the way for a reconciliation!
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