It's happened, you're in the midst of a breakup, but you don't want to be.
If you act now you may be able to effortlessly reconcile your break up and save this relationship.
Look At Mistakes If your relationship has gotten to this point, there are obviously some things that are not working.
You need to find out what they are.
Look at mistakes you may have made during the relationship and admit you have made mistakes.
Often, once you do this you can work to fix them and fix the relationship at the same time.
Apologize If you messed up, it's time to fess up.
Let your partner know you have messed up and are sorry.
Apologize and if you can pinpoint some of the things your partner has done wrong ask them to apologize for their actions as well.
Set a Course Now you have to talk things out and figure out how you are going to change.
Begin by talking through all the pain you both have.
There are a lot of emotions that have to be dealt with if you want to be able to move forward.
Make sure to really listen to what your partner is saying as learning from what they say will be something that can keep you from getting into this situation again.
Additionally, you need to be ready to make changes in the future.
Apologizing and talking about the problems is not a solution, you have to make an active effort to change your habits and the way your relationship runs.
Time Apart If nothing else is working, you may want to spend a little time away from one another.
Sometimes, a little break will let those emotions soften and give you a chance to start over.