Best Relationship Breakup Help - A Card!
When you are going through the pain of a breakup, Life can seem overwhelming.
Everyone seems to want to help, but few people really know how hurt, scared and downright mad you can be all at the same time.
Sometimes it seems no matter how hard you try to talk with your Ex they will not respond to you at all.
This just makes you more frustrated and determined to make everything work out.
What you really want (your dream) is to go back to the way it was not too long ago, when you and your Ex could talk and laugh and just enjoy life.
I know the usual advice that your friends are giving you can be frustrating and an often times just plain does not work.
Some suggestions are just wrong "start seeing other people" or foolish "just cry and beg your Ex to take you back".
Why not take the high road and do something adult and positive for a change? What you must do is sit down and make a plan of how you want to feel when your relationship is working again.
When you have a plan or a system in place it will become easy to start to rebuild your relationship.
Also having a goal will help you when it really gets bad.
One odd way to start to communicate again with your Ex is to hand-write a card, letter or note and send it to your Ex through the mail.
This form of communication is almost lost these days and your Ex will be so curious that they are bound to open it immediately.
So stop with all those cold texts and leaving angry voice mail messages, and try something simple, elegant and most importantly that works to start the communications with your Ex.
Once you guys are talking again, then it will be easier to start to get back tougher.
What should you write in the card? You must agree that the breakup is good.
This way your Ex is bound to be curious and keep reading the card to see what you are going to say next.
Now just hold on! Before you start writing any old thing, remember what your words say and your tone or how you say it are VERY important to your plan and your goal of getting back together with you Ex.
Write a couple of drafts and think carefully and don't let strong emotions cause you to write something that will make it worse.
Everyone seems to want to help, but few people really know how hurt, scared and downright mad you can be all at the same time.
Sometimes it seems no matter how hard you try to talk with your Ex they will not respond to you at all.
This just makes you more frustrated and determined to make everything work out.
What you really want (your dream) is to go back to the way it was not too long ago, when you and your Ex could talk and laugh and just enjoy life.
I know the usual advice that your friends are giving you can be frustrating and an often times just plain does not work.
Some suggestions are just wrong "start seeing other people" or foolish "just cry and beg your Ex to take you back".
Why not take the high road and do something adult and positive for a change? What you must do is sit down and make a plan of how you want to feel when your relationship is working again.
When you have a plan or a system in place it will become easy to start to rebuild your relationship.
Also having a goal will help you when it really gets bad.
One odd way to start to communicate again with your Ex is to hand-write a card, letter or note and send it to your Ex through the mail.
This form of communication is almost lost these days and your Ex will be so curious that they are bound to open it immediately.
So stop with all those cold texts and leaving angry voice mail messages, and try something simple, elegant and most importantly that works to start the communications with your Ex.
Once you guys are talking again, then it will be easier to start to get back tougher.
What should you write in the card? You must agree that the breakup is good.
This way your Ex is bound to be curious and keep reading the card to see what you are going to say next.
Now just hold on! Before you start writing any old thing, remember what your words say and your tone or how you say it are VERY important to your plan and your goal of getting back together with you Ex.
Write a couple of drafts and think carefully and don't let strong emotions cause you to write something that will make it worse.
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