Moving On And Moving In

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Letting go and moving on is easier said than done for most, if not all, women who have had their hearts broken, crushed, powdered to smithereens. Not being most women, moving on is pretty much second nature to me. In fact, even before I could say Ive moved on from a failed relationship, Ive already moved in with a new guy.

I could say Im one of the reasons why moving service in Canada is such a thriving business. With my frequent moving in Canada into boyfriends places many a moving company in Vancouver would surely not seize operation due to poor production. Kidding aside, if only women would think more like men, would be a teeny bit more resilient, wouldnt the world be a better place?

Im not talking about sleeping around or changing partners like you do shirts, instead, acting upon what the mind dictates rather than what the heart says. As the saying goes, if you cant beat them, join them. Better yet, be like them. Another case of easier said than done, but it wont hurt to take a good look into it.

Mourning Your Loss

How long should the grieving process last give it a week, tops. In those few days of mourning, allow yourself a good cry or two to release the pent up emotions. Best if you can find a friend willing enough to be a shock absorber. In the event that no friend would pose as a sponge, do like the men and make Jack Daniels or Jose Cuervo your most trusted confidantes.

In unloading your emotional baggage, dont lose yourself altogether. Keep some to self dignity and respect to be exact. Also, dont lose friends in the process by being such a whiny sap, all the while forgetting that they, too, have problems to deal with.

Giving Back

Not in the likes of paying it forward but giving back in the most literal sense returning gifts, pictures and other paraphernalia that would remind you of the what-once-was. If your ex left things in your place that hold more memories than Dumbledores pensive, then by all means hire that Alberta moving company to take all those bits and pieces to your exs. But why spend on BC movers just to give back your exs things when you can even earn some cash from the left-behinds. Put his la-Z-Boy recliner, his sink (for those with his and her baths) and his prized griller up on eBay or hold a little garage sale. Or save yourself from all the hassle of lifting the furniture and just keep there. End of story.

Scarred For Life

Lets not even go there. Failed relationships should not hinder you from loving again. So youve been played, now dont go thinking that all men are out to play you for a fool. Dont be afraid to date again. But by all means dont tell your new guy on your first date that youre already thinking of baby names.
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