Saving a relationship is a process with multiple phases.
To complete a reconciliation you need to regain your boyfriend's trust while establishing a positive line of communication.
Read four important tips on how to get back a boyfriend.
You Won't Get Stuck In The Friend Zone Most people are mortified at the thought of being in the "friend zone", but that exile is usually reserved for someone they have never been intimate with.
If your ex extends this offer to you, don't be too quick to ignore the opportunity.
Spending time together as friends will lower his defenses enough for you to work a reconciliation.
Don't Overstay Your Welcome Every time your boyfriend brushes you off because you've over stayed your welcome, the more control he has.
Keep your communication and encounters brief.
Leave your boyfriend wanting more of your time and affection.
Absolutely No Begging Nothing can eliminate your chances of getting back together faster than throwing yourself at your boyfriend.
You may think that an intimate encounter will rekindle your love, but it also eliminates something he wants.
Withholding intimacy controls the relationship much more effectively.
Once you give in to what he wants, you will lose any remaining leverage in the relationship.
Superficial Changes Are Okay There were reasons for the breakup, and your boyfriend may have actually expressed things he wished were different.
This can create a scenario where you start making drastic changes to your life, in a hope to recapture his favor.
Small, superficial changes will have a positive effect but making drastic changes to please your boyfriend can portray you as desperate.