Have you ever heard the old saying that it is not over until it is over, while this also applies to relationships as well.
If you are going through a breakup with the woman you love, you have probably given all your thoughts to how to win back her love.
The first thing most men will do after a breakup is to call their ex begging her to take him back.
I hate to tell you this, it rarely ever works.
There are better ways out there that do work.
One big secret to get her back is to acknowledge that the breakup has happened.
Your initial thought about wanting to get your ex girlfriend back is to call and beg, plead, promise to do anything because if you do not you will loose her forever.
Believe me that the opposite is true.
One thing to remember is most women get real uncomfortable when her man gets overly emotional.
If you call your ex begging and telling her she made the biggest mistake of her life, she is going to say you are acting only on emotions.
She will not appreciate you acting like this, which will make her pull away from you even further.
She will think you are desperate and not stable enough to handle a relationship with her or anyone.
One more secret to get her back is to accept the breakup.
You need to show your ex that you are moving on with your life if you think you are going to get a second chance with her.
I am not telling you to go out and start playing the field but make sure you focus on your own life, not anyone else.
You need to appear to be fine with the end of the relationship and that you are moving on with your life.
This will confuse your ex because she is expecting you to fight her about the breakup, if you do not, she will be questioning why.
If you are not there anymore, she will work to win you back, and the one running to you as quickly as she can.