If you want to get your ex girlfriend back in your life you need to concentrate on one thing, controlling your emotions is a must when trying to rebuild a relationship.
As men we do not care who we show our emotions to when it comes to the woman we love.
Unfortunately, when we do not keep our emotions in check it may be doing more damage to the relationship than good.
The ex girlfriend may see this as a major weakness and pull away even further.
Have you heard of the old saying if you love something let go, if it comes back it is yours for ever.
This is the only plan you should use to get your ex girlfriend back in your life.
If you keep trying to get her to come back to you immediately after a breakup, you will only get your feelings hurt even more.
When your girlfriend decided to leave you, she needed some time away from you, so do not bother her.
Do not try to convince her she is making a big mistake.
If you do this she will decide you are a big mistake.
The best idea I know to get your ex girlfriend back in your life is to put some distance between the two of you.
She can not miss you if you are always right there for her.
When you two were together, you added great things to her life that she liked.
After the breakup and you are no longer there, she will start to miss these things.
So you can not contact her for a few weeks.
Do not worry that she will forget you in this time.
The opposite is going to happen.
She will start to miss you and soon you will be the only thing she thinks about.