How to #Mentally #Profit and Avoid #Trouble After #Breakups
You are asking for serious trouble if you make an attempt to contact your ex. If your ex contacts you, don't speak to them. It's an awkward feeling to speak to an ex if you are in your right mind. When the relationship is over, leave it alone and deal with those crazy feelings in the moment. Decide to be a better person from the relationship that recently failed and go on to someone else. Going back to the person you broke up with or dumped you is nothing but trouble, and you will be stagnating your own progress. As they always say, fool me once, shame on them. Fool me twice, shame on you.
What makes you think the relationship will work the second time around if ya'll broke up the first time? Nine times out of 10, you two already discussed marriage, been intimate, and all that good stuff. And now, the breakup. You're going to go back to someone who virtually doesn't give two cents about you and probably dumped you and be with them again? h no. Make up in your mind that you'll strive daily to better yourself and do something positive with your life. Show that person you broke up with that you can do better without them and make the healthy decision in your mind to move forward in faith. Whatever do you after the breakup, always have a positive mindset.
When you decide to do better for yourself after the breakup, don't be surprised if your ex makes small attempts to contact you. It could be a text message "if you haven't changed your cell number," speaking through another person's page on a social network like MySpace or Facebook, or driving through your neighborhood randomly just to see if they bump into you. It's always when least expected and you're doing better for yourself the ex allegedly tries to come back into the picture. By no means are you to converse with them or even look their way if trying to get your attention. Don't be that gullible and succumb to the beckoning of your ex's attempt to contact you. Ignore them completely and keep moving forward nonstop.
Past relationships are learning experiences. They are in the past for a reason. Not to go backwards and be with them again. They were there as subliminal learning experiences to propel you to the right person. Your life soulmate who may turn out to be the ideal husband or wife. Don't let bad apples deter you from believing there isn't a mate out here for you. It may take longer in life to find them, but well worth the wait. Never get desperate and talk to your ex. When you refuse to settle for less, that's when you decide to get organized and not go back to the past.
What makes you think the relationship will work the second time around if ya'll broke up the first time? Nine times out of 10, you two already discussed marriage, been intimate, and all that good stuff. And now, the breakup. You're going to go back to someone who virtually doesn't give two cents about you and probably dumped you and be with them again? h no. Make up in your mind that you'll strive daily to better yourself and do something positive with your life. Show that person you broke up with that you can do better without them and make the healthy decision in your mind to move forward in faith. Whatever do you after the breakup, always have a positive mindset.
When you decide to do better for yourself after the breakup, don't be surprised if your ex makes small attempts to contact you. It could be a text message "if you haven't changed your cell number," speaking through another person's page on a social network like MySpace or Facebook, or driving through your neighborhood randomly just to see if they bump into you. It's always when least expected and you're doing better for yourself the ex allegedly tries to come back into the picture. By no means are you to converse with them or even look their way if trying to get your attention. Don't be that gullible and succumb to the beckoning of your ex's attempt to contact you. Ignore them completely and keep moving forward nonstop.
Past relationships are learning experiences. They are in the past for a reason. Not to go backwards and be with them again. They were there as subliminal learning experiences to propel you to the right person. Your life soulmate who may turn out to be the ideal husband or wife. Don't let bad apples deter you from believing there isn't a mate out here for you. It may take longer in life to find them, but well worth the wait. Never get desperate and talk to your ex. When you refuse to settle for less, that's when you decide to get organized and not go back to the past.
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