Getting back with your ex is tricky, but not impossible.
Breaking up is a fierce state of emotions and total confusion, I know from experience.
The only way you're going to get your ex back is to make them want you.
It's not so far-fetched, it's actually easier than you might think.
The trick is you have to challenge them: position yourself for the ideal pursuit.
We're all looking for that someone to fulfill our void by satisfying our desires.
To help you get a clearer perspective, here's a list of ingredients you'll need to stir up your ex's desires.
I can show you exactly what you need to know to get your ex back and make them stay.
Re-create yourself.
Be a mystery.
We all love to be kept on our toes.
Surprise your ex by changing your rhythm - they won't be able to predict your next move.
They'll be determined to figure you out and that's where you'll gain their interest.
The suspense magnetizes both men and women alike.
This game will keep your ex involved no matter how much they resist.
They will become addicted to you and forget the break up even happened.
Maintain a distance.
Don't give them any special attention.
Hide your broken heart at all costs.
When you see your ex in person or talk to them on the phone treat them as just another friend.
Don't act like you need them back.
You know those guys who call their women every 15 minutes after breaking up? They don't get the girl in the end.
The other guy does.
Why? Because just like men, women love a good challenge.
It's in the chase that proves you're worthy to get your ex back.
Mix pleasure with pain.
The biggest mistake anybody could make is being too nice.
Being nice is charming, but those who overdo it bore their lover to death.
Inflict some pain by making them feel vulnerable, guilty or insecure.
Balance it by elevating their confidence or giving them a deep massage.
Don't always be intense about it, but on the right occasion this works magic.
Just remember the higher the highs the lower the lows.
In other words, the more painful the break up the sweeter your make up will be.
Flood your ex with emotions and they will want to be around you just to feel alive.
Appear to be the object of desire.
This is key to getting your ex back because people want what others seem to enjoy.
Show your ex that other people want you and let them assume that they should want you too.
Draw their attention by attracting others near you.
They'll feel that they're missing out on something extraordinary and will crave to have you near them.
Slowly let them into your world.
Timing is everything here.
Wait until they show desire for you, then let them in.
Despite your broken heart, don't make it easy for them.
They'll have to earn you.
This is where most people make a fatal mistake.
If you give in too soon the challenge is over and there will be no reason to pursue you.
On the other hand, don't be too intimidating by ignoring them.
Let them in just enough to realize they want more.
What everybody needs is a good challenge.
If you can provide that for them, your ex will be chasing you to no end.
This will help you get back with your ex and make them fall hard for you, undoubtedly.