Getting your ex back is not as hard as it seems, you just make it hard on yourself.
The fact remains that your ex probably still wants you, but what you are doing is clouding their judgment to take you back.
The last thing you need right now is another mistake that only makes you further from your goal of getting your ex back.
As long as you know what you should do and should not do, your ex will not longer be able to resist you, because the power will be in your hands.
Here is how you can finally get your ex back...
Do not argue- Stop arguing with your ex...
because it's pretty much all facts, and even if not its all in the past! Why are you reliving your past? It is not what your ex wants, to constantly be faced with bad relationship mistakes and things that were done wrong.
Stop arguing, because it only makes your ex think of things to prove you wrong, which means they will stay separated longer.
Do not blame- Aside from arguing another big mistake is blaming.
You will tell your ex its their fault for this and that, and a bunch of other things.
Blame gets passed around so much that name calling somehow gets in there, low blows and many other things that only leaves both of you feeling more hurt, and more down.
Your ex doesn't need to feel guilty for everything they ever did, and if you constantly cause that he/she will see you as a source of pain.
Get over your ex- Whether or not you want to, you must at least act the part.
So long as your ex thinks that you are desperate to get him/her back, they hold all of the power and will let you sit there just for amusement.
Be cold to your ex, and stop allowing him/her to access your time, attention and other assets so easily.
The chase will keep your ex from getting bored with you again, and will make your ex want you like crazy again.