The conventional wisdom to date seems to be that should we fall in love, we only see the good characteristics of the individual and we ignore the bad characteristics.
This seemed to be the hard and fast rule applied in the area of dating.
All of us desire to find love, which is why we choose to accept a person; we acknowledge that it is a package deal.
This can be different to some people.
Some people want to be loved and some people prefer to give their love.
All this acts of being loved and the expression of love do give each of us some new meaning to life.
Therefore, many people choose to lie about their physical disabilities when they delve into online dating.
I understand that while most disabled individuals want to improve their chances in seeking a partner, they forget that future prospects will dismiss them up-front the moment they find out about the disability.
Rejection is a painful process in dating.
In my humble opinion, it makes it easier for the other party to know about the physical disability earlier.
The strategy to employ here is to make more friends first and let the conversations flow smoothly.
Devote extra attention to those people who communicate with you on their free will.
There are higher chances of success this way.
Love is a natural process so I hope that the disabled would not want to be defined as one component right from the beginning.
Take some additional time to write messages carefully so that your prospective matches will know that this person is actually looking for a relationship with mutual care and respect.