10 TIPS ON HOW TO MEET WOMEN AT PARTIES
1. Search out parties actively: You can make friends with guys who you know go to parties frequently. They would give you information as to which party is holding when. The more you party, the more likely you'll know where the parties are. And the more parties you go to, the more likely people will invite you next time. So make it a habit to do something to expand your social circle every weekend.
2. Start conversations: Going to a party is useless if you're just going to be a wallflower. You cannot just stand there and eat or drink. The main purpose o your going to the party is to chat, so do it. Make sure you go out of your way to talk to everyone and anyone – including guys and girls. You can never make too many friends.
3. Make contact, not "contacts": Don't just try to meet as many people as you can. Try to actually get to know these people as much as you can. How can you know if a woman is a good candidate for a date if you don't talk to her first? So, look around and pick that particular lady you want to meet, then go ahead and talk to her.
4. Be a good listener: Remember what I have taught you about holding good conversations. Listen plenty, and ask the right questions. Women like to talk, so let them do the talking. All you need to do is to encourage her by asking open-ended questions.
5. Never sit with someone you know: Avoid hanging out with your own buddies. Go out and meet new people. That's the whole point of going to these parties – to meet people.
6. Look for wallflowers: If you see a woman sitting by herself, go introduce yourself to her. She may just be waiting for someone to come up to talk to her. This is a good tip for the shy guy who is scared of meeting a new person. At least, an isolated lady would be much easier to approach.
7. Use the food to begin conversation: This one is my favourite. Take a bite, nod your head like it's the most delicious piece of food you've ever had, and then make a comment. Then use it as a launching pad to start a conversation.
8. Use the food as an excuse to move: Your food can serve to functions, first as a conversation starter, then as a means of concluding. Use it as an excuse to move. Don't have too much food on your plate. This way you can keep getting up and moving around.
9. Flirt, flirt, and flirt: Remember to be playful and flirt with all the ladies. This is very important.
10. Take women outside / into another room: Once you've built a good rapport with a woman, isolate her by taking her outside, to another room, or to another place.LEARN MORE