If you are constantly asking yourself how to go about getting your ex back, you need to rethink your approach to the situation.
It is time to stop wishing that things could be like they used to be: everything has changed and you need to get on with your life.
Actually, this time apart can be the key to reuniting with your ex, and your job is to make sure your ex misses you as much as you miss them.
When this happened to me, I realized to begin getting my ex back, I would need to pretend that I had moved on to a new and better life.
I decided I could not take calls, send text messages, or go see her - at least not for awhile.
The point of this is to make your ex see just what they are missing.
If they can't have you, or they think you have moved on to greener pastures and do not need them anymore, they will want you more than ever.
They will be furious with themselves for letting you get away, and in no time they will start a plan to get you back.
When this happens, it is important that you don't give in right away; you should let them back into your life gradually, fueling their desire to reunite with you.
If you are facing this painful situation, I can tell you from experience that getting my ex back was no walk in the park.
Make one mistake and it may be your last.
Just understand that it is a mind game, and you need to learn the right strategy for the particular circumstance.