When nothing else works and your ex refuses to get back to you then you will have to mentally disintegrate your ex to a point where he/she has no alternative but come back to you.
Here are 3 psychological tricks that you can play on your ex and get him/her back.
If you time them right you will also have lots of fun.
Get under your ex's skin For this you will have to really change your looks and style of dressing.
If possible you will have to look 5 years younger than your age.
To get fighting fit enroll in an aerobic class or join the local mountain biking club.
Weight training and jogging will also give you the desired results.
Your ex should not only be surprised by your new look but he/she should begin to make comparison with his/her new date.
Once the feeling of regret sets in your ex, your job will be that much easier.
Deceptively remove his/her support structure You will have to get behind enemy lines and disrupt his/her support structure.
Make friends with your ex's colleagues and be nice to his/her family members.
Impress upon them that you are the innocent party and deserve a second chance.
Your ex's family and friends will also keep you updated on your ex's moves and this will help you make tactical changes in your approach.
If possible you may also infiltrate your ex's new girlfriend/boyfriend's friends circle and plant the seed of doubt in their minds about your ex's intentions.
After you do this move to the next step.
Give a final call to your ex By now your ex will have trouble keeping his/her new relationship going.
Through common friends let him/her know that you are done with the past and have decided to move on.
Your ex will weigh the pros and cons of the new troubled relationship and will start contemplating returning to you.
However, do not expect that all this will be as easy as a walk in the park.
You will have to make suitable changes depending on how events unfold.