Have you ever taken a woman to dinner and a movie?Haven't we all? Man, do we have the wrong ideas about dating.
Here are five dating mistakes you need to avoid if you want to experience more dating success in the future.
1.
Stop Trying to Impress Women Dating shouldn't be about you impressing a woman so she'll sleep with you.
Dating should be about deepening the attraction you initially created when you met.
Taking a woman to dinner and talking about how successful and wonderful you are isn't going to create that type of attraction.
2.
Stop Trying to Buy Women You really can't buy a woman's affection and you can't buy attraction either.
Stop thinking you can get what you want by spending money.
Spending money on a woman won't create attraction.
How you make them feel will.
3.
Doing Stuff Doesn't Create Attraction The woman has been to a ton of 'dinner and a movie' dates.
Why should it create attraction with you compared to any other guy? You need to do more than just do things together.
4.
Don't Be Boring Being boring will destroy any chance of creating attraction with a woman.
You MUST be interesting.
The early dating process really isn't the time to learn "stuff.
" By stuff I mean, your life story from kindergarten on.
That's boring.
Sure, later on, once the attraction is there, she may want to know that stuff and it can deepen the bond but not now.
Got it? Learn about passions and interests, NOT life stories.
5.
Be Different Stop following the same dating process all the other guys follow.
Stop expecting dating to be a certain way.
There's no fun or spontaneity in that.
It's BORING! It doesn't matter what you spend or where you go.
It's all about building a connection and a state of attraction with the woman.
All your focus should be on creating that attraction, not on fancy dinners.
Crack jokes.
Flirt again.
Have FUN!