Putting your marriage back together after infidelity is a tough ask.
The broken pieces of a former love and a former life can seem to be irreparable to most and for some perhaps it is.
However, for more marriages than you might think a marriage can be saved and forgiveness can be achieved.
Now some may call me sappy and others may simply call me an idiot but I truly believe what I say here.
The key to putting marriages back together after an affair is all about love.
Such an overused and abused word this might be but nothing can be achieved if you simply use cold logic or if you are dealing with fear or pettiness and anger.
All those emotions will play themselves out and they will happen, you cannot avoid it.
You have to remember however that love needs to still be there underneath all the pain.
You heart might be bleeding from a thousands cuts but if it is not gone and you still have that remnant left and you want to save your marriage then that is your strength and core of your marital recovery.
You need more than love of course but at its heart if you are trying to save your marriage out of fear, or out of some sort of ownership of a person or because of finances alone then your efforts may be doomed to fail.
Putting your marriage back together after infidelity needs this love in every action you take and every word than you utter.
You may sometimes not feel it very strongly but if you know you still love them and you feel they still love you under all the layers of twisting emotions then I say go forth and rekindle that love and save your marriage now!