Why Do Men Cheat - Most Common Reason
The Reason
Most women tend to feel it is their fault that their man is cheating. This leads to the woman feeling bad about herself and causes problems with self esteem. The truth is that the top reason men cheat has nothing to so with the woman they are with.
The most common reason that men cheat is that men have a natural drive to seek out various sexual partners. They may seek out someone who has a quality their current partner lacks, but that draws them.
Men seem to be biologically inclined to cheat. It is controllable, though, since there are many men that do not cheat. However, for some men that biological draw is too strong. They may not even mean to hurt the woman they are with, but that is always what seems to happen.
How to Spot Cheating
Spotting cheating is not always easy. It can be made difficult if the man has cheated before. However, there is some truth to the old saying once a cheater, always a cheater, because once a man gives into the natural tendency they have a hard time deflecting it in the future.
Usually you will have a feeling or see changes in your partner that signal he is cheating. You may even see obvious signs such as lipstick stains on clothing or smell of strange perfume. You may even get call from his mistress. Sometimes a mistress will actually talk to you and tell you what is going on and other times they simply hang up.
How to Deal with Cheating
When you suspect that your man is cheating you need to deal with it. You have to gather proof that he is cheating and something else is not going on. Also you need to make sure that you are prepared to handle what comes after you get him to admit he has cheated.
Before you confront him you need to realize that he will try to explain away all his actions and the proof you have. You have to be ready to counter these and get to the truth.
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