There are many reasons why a man may not be having an active sex life.
These can be attributed to the internal reasons that may have something to do with the way they see themselves.
Our common concept of a man is someone who is supposedly active in bed.
But it seems that this is not the case for all men.
We are all familiar with teen flicks where the boy wants to get a one night stand with the hottest chick.
But there are guys who literally do not know any women.
These guys work in an environment where there are is no presence of women while some refuse to even speak with a girl.
You have to learn how to socialize and find means to get to meet women if you want to have any sexual intercourse with them.
Others have internal issues to deal with like the insecurity of not wanting to be seen naked in front of a girl because of a bulging stomach.
These things are trivial if you know that the girl is attracted to you anyway.
You have to have self-assurance and must work on your rapport.
Haven't you realized that what matters is not the body that you have but your capability to give her an orgasm? Of course you have got to realize that most girls are uncomfortable with sleeping with the guy if they just met for the first time.
She will go through a series of assessments of you.
In this case, she will be measuring your value as a man.
It's more than just being able to demonstrate value but the ability to stand out in some way with other men.
You have to be able to break barriers that are stopping you from having a more intimate relationship with her by knowing that you deserve to be with her.