How to Approach Women - Approach Anxiety Doesn"t Have to Hold You Back
Approach anxiety holds most guys back from being able to live their life to the fullest because it keeps them from actually going out and pursuing the women that they really desire to date. Deep down, most guys know that they would love to be able to approach any woman that they wanted to and they know that if they could do that, they'd probably end up with a pretty hot girlfriend. You know that you have been in situations before where you could not take your eyes off a woman and you wanted more than anything to have the courage to go ahead and speak to her, but you didn't.
Why?
Because you probably have that little voice in the back of your head that tells you that you are not good enough to attract her, or that she probably already has a boyfriend, or that you would just be annoying her if you were to try to start a conversation with her. That little voice is the ultimate blocker that men have to deal with and you know what? Most guys NEVER do.
They just figure that it is there, it is always going to be there, so they might as well listen to it.
You don't have to.
You can get over any approach anxiety that you feel. It may take some time, this is not something where you can take a magic pill and the next day it goes away completely. It does take some work, but the reward is more than worth it.
Picture this:
You see a sexy woman walk into a bar and you just happen to be there, checking her out from afar. You are not the only one. There are others who are doing the same thing that you are. Only, unlike all of those other guys, you aren't just checking her out, you are actually walking on over to her and starting a conversation. She laughs, you laugh, next thing you know - she is spending the rest of the night with you.
Wouldn't that be nice?
Well, that COULD be the way that you live your life IF you were able to get to a point where approach anxiety didn't hold you back anymore. I mean, you might still feel some anxiousness, we all do. However, very few actually go with it and still go ahead and make the approach.
If you really want to have some success with approaching women, then you can't let obstacles get in the way. You have to be able to deal with them as they come and one way to make sure that nothing gets in your way is to decide that you are not going to let approach anxiety hold you back.
Every guy that I know that has made this decision has not regretted it. You can't really regret it when you do become that guy who actually approaches the hottest women instead of just checking them out. You may not hook up with all of them, but you probably will hook up with some of them and that's better than what most guys are going to experience.
Why?
Because you probably have that little voice in the back of your head that tells you that you are not good enough to attract her, or that she probably already has a boyfriend, or that you would just be annoying her if you were to try to start a conversation with her. That little voice is the ultimate blocker that men have to deal with and you know what? Most guys NEVER do.
They just figure that it is there, it is always going to be there, so they might as well listen to it.
You don't have to.
You can get over any approach anxiety that you feel. It may take some time, this is not something where you can take a magic pill and the next day it goes away completely. It does take some work, but the reward is more than worth it.
Picture this:
You see a sexy woman walk into a bar and you just happen to be there, checking her out from afar. You are not the only one. There are others who are doing the same thing that you are. Only, unlike all of those other guys, you aren't just checking her out, you are actually walking on over to her and starting a conversation. She laughs, you laugh, next thing you know - she is spending the rest of the night with you.
Wouldn't that be nice?
Well, that COULD be the way that you live your life IF you were able to get to a point where approach anxiety didn't hold you back anymore. I mean, you might still feel some anxiousness, we all do. However, very few actually go with it and still go ahead and make the approach.
If you really want to have some success with approaching women, then you can't let obstacles get in the way. You have to be able to deal with them as they come and one way to make sure that nothing gets in your way is to decide that you are not going to let approach anxiety hold you back.
Every guy that I know that has made this decision has not regretted it. You can't really regret it when you do become that guy who actually approaches the hottest women instead of just checking them out. You may not hook up with all of them, but you probably will hook up with some of them and that's better than what most guys are going to experience.
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