First Date Deliberations
Whenever we get the opportunity to take a woman out for the first time the same question comes to everyone's mind.
Where am I going to take my date for the first time? We all know you only get to make that first impression one time so you better make it count.
It could either win her over or send her packing.
Let us go over some different first date ideas by starting with where not to go.
In case you just crawled out from under a rock you should know that dinner and a movie is not an option for a first encounter with your new friend.
The dinner part is fine; it's the movie that screws everything up.
When you go to a movie there is no interaction between each other for 2 or 3 hours.
How can you possibly get to know anything by not communicating? You can't! Besides you don't know if she likes action, horror, comedy, or drama.
Don't take your date to meet your parents.
If you do this you're going to be seen as a mama's boy and no one wants that label.
Another not so brilliant idea is the local bar.
This just shows that you either have a serious drinking problem or you have no substance about you.
No lady wants to hang out in a bar the first time you meet.
Remember she's probably spent enough time in bars that's why she's on a date with you.
Now let's get into some better choices for a first date.
Start with a simple lunch or coffee.
Remember you want to keep the first date casual and semi short in case there's no chemistry.
This is also a very non threatening environment that both of you can enjoy.
If there is some sort of chemistry you have the rest of the day and night to hang out with one another.
Where should you meet? I would suggest a place where there isn't going to be too many distractions.
Depending on the time of year, a park or an amusement park is a great idea.
The great thing about an amusement park is you get to be a kid again and there doesn't seem to be as much pressure.
If nothing becomes between the two of you at least you will have had some fun.
My last suggestion is the Zoo or a museum.
Make sure you have some sort of idea what your date likes.
You don't want to take her to the zoo if she hates animals.
Where am I going to take my date for the first time? We all know you only get to make that first impression one time so you better make it count.
It could either win her over or send her packing.
Let us go over some different first date ideas by starting with where not to go.
In case you just crawled out from under a rock you should know that dinner and a movie is not an option for a first encounter with your new friend.
The dinner part is fine; it's the movie that screws everything up.
When you go to a movie there is no interaction between each other for 2 or 3 hours.
How can you possibly get to know anything by not communicating? You can't! Besides you don't know if she likes action, horror, comedy, or drama.
Don't take your date to meet your parents.
If you do this you're going to be seen as a mama's boy and no one wants that label.
Another not so brilliant idea is the local bar.
This just shows that you either have a serious drinking problem or you have no substance about you.
No lady wants to hang out in a bar the first time you meet.
Remember she's probably spent enough time in bars that's why she's on a date with you.
Now let's get into some better choices for a first date.
Start with a simple lunch or coffee.
Remember you want to keep the first date casual and semi short in case there's no chemistry.
This is also a very non threatening environment that both of you can enjoy.
If there is some sort of chemistry you have the rest of the day and night to hang out with one another.
Where should you meet? I would suggest a place where there isn't going to be too many distractions.
Depending on the time of year, a park or an amusement park is a great idea.
The great thing about an amusement park is you get to be a kid again and there doesn't seem to be as much pressure.
If nothing becomes between the two of you at least you will have had some fun.
My last suggestion is the Zoo or a museum.
Make sure you have some sort of idea what your date likes.
You don't want to take her to the zoo if she hates animals.
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