5 keys to a successful first date
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The first date is key, as you only have one time to make a good impression. Many guys don't get to the second date with women. Want to up your chances of getting to that elusive second date? Here are some keys that you want to focus on:
1. Show up on time. Nothing makes you look worse than being late for the first date. If possible you want to show up ten minutes early. To a woman, showing up late tells her that you do not respect her time and she will be put off by that.
2. Have at least 3 good questions to ask her to keep her engaged. You want to know the funny thing about women? They like you more when you listen to them talk about themselves. Strange huh? Keep her engaged by keeping her talking about herself. Most guys go on the first date and brag about themselves and talk about themselves most of the time. This is why they don't get the second date from the women that they really like. Don't do what they do. Instead have good open ended questions that you can ask her. One good question to ask is "what would you do with one million dollars?" If you listen, then you should be able to piggyback more questions off her answer. The goal is to keep her talking.
3. Keep your hands to yourself. Many guys will try to put their arm around her, hug her, etc. to see if she is interested in him. You don't want to be like those losers who don't get second dates right? They have the wrong approach. Instead, see how many times she tries to touch you. See if she accidentally bumps into you, touches your shoulder, or taps you when you tell a funny joke. That's how you gauge if she's interested in you; instead of trying to give her a hug.
4. Don't talk about or make future plans. So many guys try to make future plans on the first date........how uninteresting. You want her to question whether or not you will call her for the second date. You have to be a challenge. When you make plans or talk about the future, she already knows that she has you and she might get bored. Nothing worse than a bored woman. Let her talk about the future. If she says something like "we should do that next time" or "you should take me to" then those are good signs. Under no circumstances ever should you plan a date or talk about future dates with her on the date.
5. Walk her to the car and wish her good night. Do not go for the kiss. When the date is ending, walk her to her house or car depending on the circumstances of the first date, and wish her a good night. Don't say stuff like " I really had a great time" or "We should do it again soon!" Just slyly wish her a good night and end it there.
If you have done these things right and she is truely interested in you one of two things will happen next:
When you call her (4 days after the date) she will be eager to go out with you again.
or
(If you have a really hot lead) She will call or contact you first. When she does you go for the kill and set up the second date.
The girl may not be interested in you. No worries, that's why you have the other 9 phone numbers for; )
www.asklovejones.com
The first date is key, as you only have one time to make a good impression. Many guys don't get to the second date with women. Want to up your chances of getting to that elusive second date? Here are some keys that you want to focus on:
1. Show up on time. Nothing makes you look worse than being late for the first date. If possible you want to show up ten minutes early. To a woman, showing up late tells her that you do not respect her time and she will be put off by that.
2. Have at least 3 good questions to ask her to keep her engaged. You want to know the funny thing about women? They like you more when you listen to them talk about themselves. Strange huh? Keep her engaged by keeping her talking about herself. Most guys go on the first date and brag about themselves and talk about themselves most of the time. This is why they don't get the second date from the women that they really like. Don't do what they do. Instead have good open ended questions that you can ask her. One good question to ask is "what would you do with one million dollars?" If you listen, then you should be able to piggyback more questions off her answer. The goal is to keep her talking.
3. Keep your hands to yourself. Many guys will try to put their arm around her, hug her, etc. to see if she is interested in him. You don't want to be like those losers who don't get second dates right? They have the wrong approach. Instead, see how many times she tries to touch you. See if she accidentally bumps into you, touches your shoulder, or taps you when you tell a funny joke. That's how you gauge if she's interested in you; instead of trying to give her a hug.
4. Don't talk about or make future plans. So many guys try to make future plans on the first date........how uninteresting. You want her to question whether or not you will call her for the second date. You have to be a challenge. When you make plans or talk about the future, she already knows that she has you and she might get bored. Nothing worse than a bored woman. Let her talk about the future. If she says something like "we should do that next time" or "you should take me to" then those are good signs. Under no circumstances ever should you plan a date or talk about future dates with her on the date.
5. Walk her to the car and wish her good night. Do not go for the kiss. When the date is ending, walk her to her house or car depending on the circumstances of the first date, and wish her a good night. Don't say stuff like " I really had a great time" or "We should do it again soon!" Just slyly wish her a good night and end it there.
If you have done these things right and she is truely interested in you one of two things will happen next:
When you call her (4 days after the date) she will be eager to go out with you again.
or
(If you have a really hot lead) She will call or contact you first. When she does you go for the kill and set up the second date.
The girl may not be interested in you. No worries, that's why you have the other 9 phone numbers for; )
www.asklovejones.com
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