Why is it so difficult for some women to meet a man? Is it because they do not get outside their home often enough and make an effort? Maybe they don't have enough interests that bring them into new circles.
Diversity is the answer to an active dating scenario.
Getting active is the best thing a woman can do.
Take golf lessons, but be aware that many other single woman are also thinking they will meet men on the links.
Most men are competitive golfers and will not be overly excited to share their game with an inexperienced newbie.
There is something to be said for socializing in the clubhouse after though.
At the very least, it is a wonderful way to spend an afternoon, even if it means just hanging out at the driving range.
Don't be shy or be afraid to ask for tips.
Men love to help! (Never talk during someone's swing & choose your timing appropriately) Pick up a tennis racket & play against the wall by yourself, this will bring partners to you even if you are not fantastic.
Many people just want to rally a little on a public court.
Many serious tennis players will be members at a tennis club anyway.
(Dressing in baggy sweatpants should be avoided and looking good is part of the lure.
Men are visual creatures after all) Joining a gym is a must and the best networking place anywhere.
Where else besides the beach can you see your potential date half undressed? Observing a masculine body in action is worth the grueling 40 minutes on a boring stair master.
Do not use your iPod if you want to meet someone.
It is a sure way of saying, "don't bother me.
" Hiking up a local trail on the weekends will help you meet men.
There are many regular hikers whom you may get to know once you become a regular participant.
You don't have to be in great shape, just getting out and doing something is enough to catch male attention.
Frequent lounges with live music...
Ensure it is a mingle type environment with an open room concept.
Avoid booths or closed seating venues.
Be assertive but not aggressive.
Lack of confidence is a date "killer", but the more a woman puts herself "out there" the more she will become comfortable in many different surroundings.
Going to places that men frequent the most, sporting good stores, home depot, gyms and athletic events will improve a woman's chances of meeting a man in a sober environment.
Attending the odd baseball or hockey game is also a good idea.
(Women are still the minority at these venues, so they will stand out.
) Women need to be themselves and leave the phony facade at home.
Men like a woman who is down to earth and real.
Having to peel off the onion layers will not keep a man interested.
Being adventurous and willing to try different things is all men really want to see, despite women thinking they have to be fantastic at everything they attempt.
Going for a bike ride or taking in a football game, is simple and appreciated by most men.
It's not that difficult to stay active in the dating market, if a little effort is made.
You may actually get to have that second date and find someone compatible to be your partner down the road.
Susan McCord